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Monday, 22 September 2025

Living a life of worship

Psalm 101:1–8 (ESV):  

1  I will sing of steadfast love and justice; 

to you, O Lord, I will make music. 

 2  I will ponder the way that is blameless. 

Oh when will you come to me? 

  I will walk with integrity of heart 

within my house; 

 3  I will not set before my eyes 

anything that is worthless. 

  I hate the work of those who fall away; 

it shall not cling to me. 

 4  A perverse heart shall be far from me; 

I will know nothing of evil. 

 5  Whoever slanders his neighbour secretly 

I will destroy. 

  Whoever has a haughty look and an arrogant heart 

I will not endure. 

 6  I will look with favour on the faithful in the land, 

that they may dwell with me; 

  he who walks in the way that is blameless 

shall minister to me. 

 7  No one who practices deceit 

shall dwell in my house; 

  no one who utters lies 

shall continue before my eyes. 

 8  Morning by morning I will destroy 

all the wicked in the land, 

  cutting off all the evildoers 

from the city of the Lord. 

David, the author of this psalm is concerned with loving God well and becoming a just king under God’s authority. The opening sentences show that David’s aim is to bring worship to God with his life. He knows that he can sing and play music to honour God, but true worship is about living the way that God desires by discovering ‘the way that is ‘blameless’. This is a more beautiful sound to God and more evident of a heart for Him than any well sung song or well played tune.  

David has the desire to be all in with God, giving Him glory with his life. So he considers; his conduct at home, what he looks at, who he spends time with and the character of those who he knows. In order to truly worship God, David recognises that how he behaves, and the choices he makes about what he does and who he spends time with are important. Wanting to live a life of integrity requires you to put God first in the whole of your life, making ruthless decisions about your conduct, what company you keep, and what activities you get involved with. It is not about attending christian gatherings, reading the Bible, or singing worship songs, although these are natural responses to loving God and wanting to live His way. Your heart of worship is seen in your interactions with others and by what you choose to do with your time. Your interactions with family, neighbours, friends, people of faith, unbelievers, and the wicked all need to be assessed for their value in living a life worthy of worshipping God. This, along with the activities you do and don’t get involved with show whether you are living a life of integrity or not, they show if you really are a worshipper. 

David is ruthless, he says that he ‘will not endure’ the arrogant and proud, he ‘will destroy’ those who falsely accuse their neighbours and those who lie shall not ‘continue before my eyes’. David makes decisions to cut out people like this from his life because they harm his life of worship. They damage his ability to live life with integrity before God, so they have got to go. Are there people in your life that have too much influence or who lead you astray? Is there anyone that you are spending time with who damages your ability to live life well before God? Living a life following God is not easy, and it is harder when you have people around you of poor, ungodly character who; lie, are proud, gossip, and put others down. So carefully consider the relationships you are investing in, who and what you are listening to, are they really worth it? Or are there some whom, like David, you will no longer endure? (v5)

Those David wishes to have influence in his life are the ones, ‘who walks in the way that is blameless.’ He says that he will allow these people to ‘minister to me’. These are the ones he can trust, it takes time to find them, yet it is worth it. Their advice is solid, they are honest and trustworthy. They can give true comfort even when they say things you don’t like, because they are truthful and want the best for you. They will lead you in the way that is blameless so that you can live a life of worship to God. Who are those people in your life and do you intentionally spend time with them? 

You get to choose who you follow and who has influence upon you. If you want to live a life following God, then it requires you to purify your life. This means that you need to consider who you are spending time with, what you are watching and how you are behaving. Think about who is in your life, what you are doing with your time and your behaviour. Do these things honour God? For being a person of integrity demands that your conduct is the same wherever you are, whoever you are with, and whatever is happening. David is an inspiration in this, as he desired to live a life of integrity even when he felt distant from God. As he wrote this psalm he asks God, ‘Oh, when will you come to me?’ (v2). David, even when he didn’t feel like God was near him, was still seeking to follow God’s ways. Some people when they hit a time in life like this where it seems that God is absent start to doubt Him, drop their guard, and make decisions that do not honour God. This could be through the activities they partake in, their behaviour and the company they keep. These are the ones who ‘fall away’ (v3). David though remains faithful and uses this time to reflect and consider how he can honour God more in his life. He thinks about what he does within his household, his relationships, and how he spends his time. For he knew that every area of life should be impacted by his love of God, even when God does not seem close. God should be the one influencing how you behave, the decisions you make and the people you trust and spend time with. Do not just do what everyone else expects, but do what God would say is right even when you do not know where He is. For God desires a set apart people. If you desire to be part of His kingdom then you need to live your life in purity and with integrity. You have no time or space for distractions no matter how nice or attractive they may be. You are responsible for deciding what you are living for, so do not let anyone else influence your life other than Jesus and those whose lives demonstrate that they are honouring Him always. Like David, you need to be ruthless about who your friends are, your behaviour, the activities that you participate in and the people you allow to influence you. Is there something you need to change in your life today? Is there a relationship that is unholy? Activities that you participate in that do not honour God? Behaviours you need to stop? Do you live with integrity across every area of life? It is not enough to worship God with song and music, He requires your life to be one of worship.


Monday, 16 December 2024

the inward mind and heart of a man are deep

 Psalm 64:1–10 (ESV):  

1  Hear my voice, O God, in my complaint; 

preserve my life from dread of the enemy. 

2  Hide me from the secret plots of the wicked, 

from the throng of evildoers, 

3  who whet their tongues like swords, 

who aim bitter words like arrows, 

4  shooting from ambush at the blameless, 

shooting at him suddenly and without fear. 

5  They hold fast to their evil purpose; 

they talk of laying snares secretly, 

thinking, “Who can see them?” 

6  They search out injustice, 

saying, “We have accomplished a diligent search.” 

For the inward mind and heart of a man are deep. 

7  But God shoots his arrow at them; 

they are wounded suddenly. 

8  They are brought to ruin, with their own tongues turned against them; 

all who see them will wag their heads. 

9  Then all mankind fears; 

they tell what God has brought about 

and ponder what he has done. 

10  Let the righteous one rejoice in the Lord 

and take refuge in him! 

Let all the upright in heart exult! 

Words can easily entangle and lead us down a path we never really intended on going down. This psalm can remind us how the words of deception, rumours and lies spread, and build into becoming swords, arrows and snares. The little quips and comments grow to transform people into enemies, this is what happened to David. It is bad enough having one person lying about you, saying horrible things and plotting against you, but David had a ‘throng of evildoers’ against him. How did that happen? These enemies and their schemes all started somewhere. There was one moment when something was done or said that has taken over and spiralled. One disagreement, angry word, disappointment, error, jealousy or miscommunication has led to people becoming disgruntled, conniving enemies. It may not even have been anything to do with what David has done or said. People can become our enemies for many reasons. Yet, just because someone is railing against you, doesn’t mean you should do the same. David recognised this. It is important, even when people are horrible to you, to deal with them well - To live above reproach. David did not; shout things back, sneak around after them, try to catch them out or even confront and fight them. He could have done - he was a powerful, mighty king! Even though he could have fought, and won, he did not take matters into his own hands. He could have permanently got rid of these troublesome, lying, deceitful, wicked plotters who attacked him. Instead, David preferred God's way. He talked to God about it and trusted in His eventual salvation, knowing that God’s way is better. David did not repay evil for evil, but he patiently waited for God to start shooting His arrows instead of shooting his own. For David knew that God would transform the situation and cause these enemies to be on the run and descend into ruin because they are attacking God’s man. God preserves and fights for those who love Him, so David was assured that he would not only be rescued by God from this situation, but that it would also be for the benefit other believers too. As they would see God come through and rejoice! (V10). What is your response when people behave like enemies towards you?

It is important as mentioned above, to ensure that you are living above reproach in every circumstance. To make sure that even if people treat you badly, you do not do the same to them. Jesus tells us in Matthew 5:39, "I say to you, do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also”. Jesus' advice - Do not try to squash the behaviour of those acting badly, but let them do it! By that you are showing love and mercy like God does to us. Do not allow yourself to retaliate or become angry, for that is not godliness and you will just end up behaving the same way as those against you and become wicked yourself. Consider the disciples in the book of Acts, they undergo terrible treatment, but do not react in their own strength. They endure torture and imprisonment and glorify and trust in God through it. They did not retaliate, fight or argue back. Instead they imitated their saviour in their loving and merciful responses to those who became their enemies. They are great examples of living a painful, but dedicated life to God. They lived their life fully for Him and that meant they didn’t always behave in the way they wanted to. The disciples understood that Jesus had shown that the battle is not really theirs, that even the enemies are not fighting you, but the godliness that is within. They also realised that any argument or physical fight is not going to change the heart or mindset of the wicked. Only the love and mercy of God can do that. Do you allow this to be the case when you have enemies? Or do you roll your sleeves up ready for a fight?

David also gives us an insight in this psalm that people have many reasons for doing things as, ‘The inward mind and heart of a man are deep’. David has realised that all people have; fears, hurts, joys and hopes which combine to influence their behaviour. David recognises that there are many reasons why someone will act in a certain way because they are ‘deep’. Some get carried away, follow others, respond out of heartache, try to provide security - there are many explanations of why people behave as they do because we are complex creatures. Friends and enemies have reasons to be such, and predominantly it is not because of you. It is because of the deep things that are going on inside of them. The behaviour and decisions a person makes are often not due to one experience or one comment, but there are many thoughts, values and experiences that lead to it. Those who live righteously and those who live wickedly choose to do so as a result of the internal processing of many ideas, ideals, experiences and goals. The things that mould a person into who they become are many and complicated, and they impact how they treat others. 

When you are on the receiving end of poor behaviour or wickedness, it is easy to consider the person or people involved as wicked. Yet you do not know the inner depths of each person for, ‘The inward mind and heart of a man are deep’. You do not know that they have been through, or why they are acting as they are. Sometimes these people may even seem quite nice and honourable, as they may act wickedly towards you, but they also can seem righteous or good at times! (v5-6) People are complex creatures, we all are. We all have different motivations and reasons for being like we are. We can even seem nice to some and horrid to others. David has noticed how even those plotting evil diligently against him, ‘search out injustice’. Yet they themselves are unjust in their words and actions towards him. It is a conundrum, but not one that any of us can solve by worrying about it. Instead, David does the only thing he can - talks to God about it - the One who knows the innermost being of every man and woman, and he trusts Him to sort it out. David is certain God will bring about the right course of action, and he will wait for it. For now, until his rescue comes, David will take refuge in speaking with God, trusting in His protection, for the time will come when ‘God shoots his arrows’ at these evildoers, and the people of God will, ‘rejoice in the Lord’ for the victory God has brought about. So instead of preparing to fight, why not take guidance from David, who did not roll up his sleeves and prepare for a battle when people plotted against him, but talked to God, carried on his everyday life and waited and trusted in the love and mercy of God to bring salvation and reason for all of God's people to rejoice?