Matthew 6:1–4 (ESV):
“Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven. 2 “Thus, when you give to the needy, sound no trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may be praised by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. 3 But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4 so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.
How do you demonstrate good, godly character? Do you make sure others know about the good things that you do? Or do you do them and not talk about it? This doesn’t mean that you should be secretive, but it does mean that you should consider why you tell people about your attitudes and actions. It may that you share these things because you think it will be helpful for others, or to teach or encourage someone. This is ok. Jesus is not saying that you should live a life that no-one else knows about. What Jesus is saying is that you should consider the reason behind what you share, what is your intention? Do you share stories of your own goodness in ‘order to be seen’ or because actually it is a helpful or encouraging lesson? You know the difference, others might not, but you do. If you talk about what you are doing in order to show off, then you are waiting for the response of people to say how; clever, good, brave, or kind you are. You are living for the praise of man, not living for the reward of God. It is a stark reality that if you share things with others because you desire them to think well of you and praise you, ‘then you will have no reward from your Father in heaven’! Knowing the capacity and love of God, you are definitely much better off aiming to receive His praise than anyone else's. Yet His acknowledgement will not look the same as people’s praise. Plus, you cannot embellish the story when you are talking to God about it as He knows what really happened, and He sees your heart and intent. So, when you next want to share a story about how you have done something well, think about why you want to tell it. Is it for your glory, for the reward of people's praise? If so, keep quiet. Then allow God to reward your goodness when and how He likes, for the promise is that He will reward you.
Jesus has already spoken in previous verses about how sin can happen in the heart and with unspoken thoughts. So be aware of your natural inclinations and ensure that you behave in a God-honouring, not self-serving manner when you wish to talk about the things you do. Consider, does the person need to know, and do i need to tell this? Am i desiring to share because i want recognition and praise from men? Live for the reward of heaven, not the temporal delight of people pleasing. Boasting about what you do for God or for others does not encourage or build up anyone other than yourself. People can feel intimidated or overwhelmed and feel that they cannot match up when others triumph in their actions, and what they do and do not give, so do not be like that. It does not build the love and acceptance that God desires and it does not reflect well on you. Instead, give generously and behave in a way that God desires - live to please Him.
Do you give to the needy? Jesus expects that you do for he says, ‘when you give to the needy’ - Not if, but when. That carries an expectation that you give to those in need. So, do you? God throughout Scripture says that we should out for, care for and give to those who have less in society. What are you doing in that regard? When you do give, are you doing it quietly and considerately? Do not make a fuss about what you do for others, just get on with it. Jesus is clearly saying that these things, God sees, even if other people are completely unaware, ‘and your Father who sees in secret will reward you’. What. marvellous promise, live for that greater reward.