Pray right

Matthew 6:5–15 (ESV): 

And when you pray, you must not be like the hypocrites. For they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and at the street corners, that they may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. 6 But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you. 

7 “And when you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do, for they think that they will be heard for their many words. 8 Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him. 9 Pray then like this: 

  “Our Father in heaven, 

  hallowed be your name. 

 10  Your kingdom come, 

  your will be done, 

on earth as it is in heaven. 

 11  Give us this day our daily bread, 

 12  and forgive us our debts, 

as we also have forgiven our debtors. 

 13  And lead us not into temptation, 

but deliver us from evil. 

14 For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, 15 but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. 

Prayer is important. You should do it, and do it well. Yet prayer is not something to be proud of, boast about or to be intellectually profound. Prayer is talking to your Father in heaven. When you talk to a loving parent your speech is natural, you can speak honestly and with emotion. You do not need fancy words for a good parent knows their child, understands their simple language and the emotions they express. They can certainly tell if their child is showing off or not being genuine in what they are saying. God is like that, He is the perfect parent and He knows you perfectly well. You can be yourself when you speak with Him, your natural, normal, everyday self. You do not need to be intellectual, use theological vocabulary, over emphasise, impress or pray what you think is expected. You are speaking to someone who really knows you and loves you so you can be real and raw. You do not have to impress God or make Him think a certain way. Prayer is a chance for you to be heard and to hear what you need to from your loving Father in heaven. 

So, how do you begin to pray?

Jesus tells us that remembering God’s position as Father and His holiness is a good place to start (v9). Recall your relationship with God, and His nature. He is loving, kind, supportive and powerful, plus He is also pure and holy. It is important that you acknowledge that. By so doing you are recalling the great privilege of being in His presence, and the honour of being able to speak with Him. God is your holy Father, so start talking to Him by thinking about that first. 

Next acknowledge that God’s kingdom is different and better (v10). The way God works is not the same as the way the world works. So, asking for His kingdom to come means asking for His values to be displayed here on Earth. Asking for God’s will is asking for that to be of more importance than the things you want. Your desires are not always holy and pure like God’s, so do not insist on your own way being fulfilled, but learn to trust God that His way is best. Feel free to ask for what you want, but do not lose hope or faith if the things you want do not come about, God has a different plan than yours and it is a good one.

God will provide your everyday needs, so acknowledge tht. Do not take for granted the gift of the 'daily bread' that He gives you. Ask for it, and appreciate the provision from the hand of God for every mouthful, for every word of wisdom and for every breath. It all comes from Him.

Jesus also says that when you pray, remember that you need forgiveness. Ask for it. God is willing and able to forgive you. The reason you can even approach God is because you have been forgiven and are being forgiven due to Jesus laying down his life. When you pray, it is important that you take time to consider this. Asking for forgiveness is an opportunity for you to reflect on what has happened that you regret and have done (or thought) wrong and receive fresh mercy. As you do this, remember those that you need to forgive. For Jesus says that you will be forgiven as you forgive others. So, be generous in forgiveness. As you pray, ask God to help you do that, even if you have asked Him before. I have had to remind myself that i have forgiven some people multiple times, and have kept on asking for God’s strength to do it. That is ok. You can keep asking, God is a loving Father and He is patient and kind, and He will help you do the things that are hard if you are willing to do it. God is still needing to forgive you,  so make sure you to do the same for others. As you ask God to forgive, you do not want to continue in repetitive sin so ask God to help you avoid temptation. That may look like stopping going to certain places or. being around particular people. God can help, so ask Him. Show Him that you really want to get rid of the sin that seems to plague you, ask for His help.

The power of praying like Jesus modelled is the humility it builds in you. Humans are great at thinking they are greatly important. Praying in this manner causes you to reflect on who you really are and who God is. God is pure, holy, powerful, loving and good. You are a sinner in need of forgiveness, just like those who have offended you. You need forgiveness, help, strength and rescuing. God can provide that. Therefore when you pray it is a good opportunity for you to reflect on God’s and your own character. It is not just a chance to tell God what you want or to show how good you are by prideful gratitude. Instead, it is a chance to get to know yourself and your maker. 

Which reward are you living for?

 Matthew 6:1–4 (ESV): 

“Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven. 2 “Thus, when you give to the needy, sound no trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may be praised by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. 3 But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4 so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you. 

How do you demonstrate good, godly character? Do you make sure others know about the good things that you do? Or do you do them and not talk about it? This doesn’t mean that you should be secretive, but it does mean that you should consider why you tell people about your attitudes and actions. It may that you share these things because you think it will be helpful for others, or to teach or encourage someone. This is ok. Jesus is not saying that you should live a life that no-one else knows about. What Jesus is saying is that you should consider the reason behind what you share, what is your intention? Do you share stories of your own goodness in ‘order to be seen’ or because actually it is a helpful or encouraging lesson? You know the difference, others might not, but you do. If you talk about what you are doing in order to show off, then you are waiting for the response of people to say how; clever, good, brave, or kind you are. You are living for the praise of man, not living for the reward of God. It is a stark reality that if you share things with others because you desire them to think well of you and praise you, ‘then you will have no reward from your Father in heaven’! Knowing the capacity and love of God, you are definitely much better off aiming to receive His praise than anyone else's. Yet His acknowledgement will not look the same as people’s praise. Plus, you cannot embellish the story when you are talking to God about it as He knows what really happened, and He sees your heart and intent. So, when you next want to share a story about how you have done something well, think about why you want to tell it. Is it for your glory, for the reward of people's praise? If so, keep quiet. Then allow God to reward your goodness when and how He likes, for the promise is that He will reward you. 

Jesus has already spoken in previous verses about how sin can happen in the heart and with unspoken thoughts. So be aware of your natural inclinations and ensure that you behave in a God-honouring, not self-serving manner when you wish to talk about the things you do. Consider, does the person need to know, and do i need to tell this? Am i desiring to share because i want recognition and praise from men? Live for the reward of heaven, not the temporal delight of people pleasing. Boasting about what you do for God or for others does not encourage or build up anyone other than yourself. People can feel intimidated or overwhelmed and feel that they cannot match up when others triumph in their actions, and what they do and do not give, so do not be like that. It does not build the love and acceptance that God desires and it does not reflect well on you. Instead, give generously and behave in a way that God desires - live to please Him.

Do you give to the needy? Jesus expects that you do for he says, ‘when you give to the needy’ - Not if, but when. That carries an expectation that you give to those in need. So, do you? God throughout Scripture says that we should out for, care for and give to those who have less in society. What are you doing in that regard? When you do give, are you doing it quietly and considerately? Do not make a fuss about what you do for others, just get on with it. Jesus is clearly saying that these things, God sees, even if other people are completely unaware, ‘and your Father who sees in secret will reward you’. What. marvellous promise, live for that greater reward.

How should you treat your enemies?

God is concerned with every area of our lives. So far in Matthew, Jesus has taught about the problem of sin being not just outward actions but born in the heart. This means that our thoughts and desires, as well as actions, can be sinful and do the terrible work of separating us from God. Jesus has said how our words can also get us into trouble by promising too much or too little, and by what we say to others. Now, Jesus addresses the problem of how to deal with people who do not like you, or maybe that you don’t like. How you treat your enemies and those who demand things of you reflects on you, and how obedient you are to God. 

Matthew 5:38–48 (ESV): 

38 “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ 39 But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. 40 And if anyone would sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. 41 And if anyone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. 42 Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you. 

You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. 46 For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? 47 And if you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? 48 You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.”

During this section, Jesus reflects on the passage in Leviticus 24 (v17-22) when God taught the Israelites that crimes should be justly paid for. If someone steals something, they have to give it back or replace it, if someone kills another’s animal, they must ‘make it good, life for life’. This is the context on which the eye for an eye statement is made. If someone injures ‘their neighbour’ then, ‘whatever injury he has given a person shall be given to him.’ This would seem like justice, but does it actually deal with the root cause of the issue? Jesus explains that now is the time to not deal with one another, or enemies that way. 

Jesus instructs, “do not resist the one who is evil”. For the Israelites at this time, they would have seen this to mean the Roman empire who were the occupying force over Israel. Romans had no respect for Jewish culture or law, yet they werre those in power over God’s people. Radically, Jesus is instructing his hearers not to resist them. He identifies that the laws of Leviticus apply to God’s people. It cannot be enforced onto people that are not His (like the Romans) - they are living under other rules and regulations. As the Jews living under Roman occupation, there was a culture and rules impressed upon them that they did not like, want or understand and they could not impose their standards and expectations upon their enemies either. Jesus, wisely, is showing that they should not expect the Romans to act as Jews, and in fact, they need to change their attitude to Romans! Instead of encouraging the Jews to fight back and enforce their traditions and retribution, Jesus says that they should not only unjustly suffer what is imposed on them, but to even offer more to their enemies than is asked for or required! They are to retaliate by offering to bless their enemies not retaliate. This looks like offering someone the other side of your face when they have already slapped you, instead of snatching back a garment which is yours, give them another one, and being willing to carry the heavy armour and possessions of a Roman soldier 2 miles when the rule was to go 1. When an enemy forces you to do something that is hard and may be just and unfair, ask them what else you can do for them. Jesus says this is how to manage enemies. Isn’t that a hard thing to do?! 

Yet, is that not exactly what Jesus has done for us?

I think through asking God’s people to demonstrate mercy, grace and forgiveness to others, to be proactive in serving and blessing those who curse or are wicked towards you, you have the great and marvellous privilege of demonstrating a small part of the massive work of forgiveness and mercy Jesus has delivered you. He went far more than a mile! He endured more beatings than a retaliated slapped cheek or stolen possession. His clothes were taken, his life stolen from him, body beaten, bloodied and bruised. Jesus did not fight or argue back. Not once did he complain that it was not fair. He kept on going. He even healed one of the guards ears as they came to arrest him! Jesus loved his enemies. He demonstrated that he was of God by doing so. It cost him. It was painful and unfair, yet he did it anyway. For Jesus does not want people to stay enemies, but for them to have the opportunity to become his family through accepting his forgiveness and love. Jesus was the best example of how not to retaliate, but love enemies instead. You and I were once his enemies, but because of him loving us as we do not deserve, are you not his friend now? 

Jesus does not ask us to do the impossible, although it is hard! He modelled how to live a life like this. You will have to give up your expectations of how people should respond to you and take on those of Jesus. It will feel like you are dying to yourself, but look at the freedom Jesus bought for millions of people through turning the other cheek and going the extra mile.

Jesus loved us even though we were his enemies. We deserved punishment, yet he gives us freedom. We deserve to be thrown out, but Jesus draws us in. We deserve hatred from a pure and holy God, but all we receive is love. Therefore it should not be so hard for us to do the little things of showing kindness, respect, honour, grace, forgiveness and love to those whom are not our friends, whom we might even class as enemies. Think about the life you have now because of Jesus. What would have you been like without him? You now have the opportunity to experience something of Jesus’ love through the way you are with them! 

Integrity

 Matthew 5:33–37 (ESV): 

33 “Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform to the Lord what you have sworn.’ 34 But I say to you, Do not take an oath at all, either by heaven, for it is the throne of God, 35 or by the earth, for it is his footstool, or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. 36 And do not take an oath by your head, for you cannot make one hair white or black. 37 Let what you say be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything more than this comes from evil. 

God expects those who follow, honour and respect him to live with integrity - to say what they mean and mean what they say, then get on and do it. This is not in a harsh or a cruel way, but honesty is important.

When people make oaths or ‘pinky promises’, they are only made when trying to convince someone else that they will definitely do something. If that is required to guarantee your action or inaction, why wouldn’t your general words be enough? Have you become a person who is unreliable, or is it just the cultural norm to make promises to assure your word? Whichever is true, God says that your response should, “be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’”. There is no need to complicate or over promise things. If you intend to do something say you will, if not, say you won’t, then fulfill your word. Simple! This should give the hearer all the assurance they need. Yet, in a broken and evil world and society, often assurance and promises are sought. People may want a further verbal guarantee “do you promise?”, “pinky swear?”. Do not fall for that, just let your word be enough. As a man or woman of God, you are to not live as the rest of the world does, but as people whose word is their guarantee. People often want a promise because they recognise that people are unreliable and lack integrity. So make sure that your words are trustworthy and true. Then people can grow to rely on you and see that you live to a different standard, one that emulates and demonstrates something of who God is. It is simple, let your yes be yes and your no, no. As you practice not making oaths and still completing your word, over time your reliability and integrity will be demonstrated. People will realise that you are someone that can be trusted without extensive words or swearing on someone’s life etc. Even if you become known as someone who avoids the cultural norms, you will become a person of integrity and trustworthiness, demonstrating something of the God you serve. 

When you think about it, making such oaths is just words added to words anyway, so what really is the point of them?! These additional words are meant to guarantee what you say, but what makes them any different than a yes or no? It is just people's emphasis and expectations that different words have different levels of intention. So Jesus says, let your word be enough. Do not worry that people seem dubious or offended if you do not make the promise. Just get on with speaking the simple truth and honour God through carrying out what you have said you will. 

It is also important to maintain integrity when you make an assurance to God. Jesus says, ‘you shall not swear falsely, but perform to the Lord what you have sworn’. God sees and hears everything, remember that! The things said in front of others and the things said in secret. So, if you are convicted to promise God something, be sure to complete your word. Only make a promise to God if it is within your power to do it. Then put in the effort and fulfill your word. Making a promise to God is a bid business, for how can you let a holy, righteous God down? He will keep His word to you always, so ensure you keep your word to Him. 

Making an oath to anyone, God or human in serious. Even if it seems like a simple guarantee. In some ways, living a life of faith is simple, but it does not mean it is easy. So be mindful of what you agree to even in your everyday conversations. Consider your words and assurances to God and to man. Only agree to things you can and will do, and build your reputation as person of integrity, honesty and reliability, just like the God you follow. 

Cut it off!

 Jesus makes it plain what sin is. He challenges people’s misconceptions and self-reasoning that actually they are not really that bad. Jesus shows that sin is not just an outward action, but it starts in the heart and mind first. Just because something is not witnessed by others it does not mean it does not exist or did not happen. Jesus continues to ruthlessly display the level of holiness required through how men and women view each other:

Matthew 5:27–32 (ESV): 

27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell. 

31 “It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ 32 But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery. 

The Law of God was plain - no sex before marriage, and then no sex with anyone other than your spouse whilst you are married. This is clear and people understand it. Jesus goes onto say that this is not the complete understanding of adultery though for, “everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” If you look at someone with desire, and you are not married to them, then you have sinned. Pretty radical, and some may say harsh. Before any outward action, before any exchange of words, the sin is right there. Sin is birthed in the heart, then the mind, and God knows about it before you actually do anything wrong. 

The level of goodness required by God is not just restraint or self-discipline, but a completely pure heart and mind. One that doesn’t entertain any ungodly thoughts or desires. How on earth can we attain that level of holiness? 

Every person, even those that you admire for their goodness and morality, have sinned. For Jesus explains that sin is birthed not in actions but in thought and desire. Therefore no-one is innocent. For sin begins with a thought or a desire, the problem is right there before any action is performed. A thought is enough to make you unholy. 

Just before these verses Jesus spoke about anger and how just feeling angry with another person or calling them a name leaves you liable to judgement. The level of holiness required to be acceptable to God is extremely high. Some may say it is even unachievable. How can you control your thoughts and feelings to the extent that you never think or feel anything that is sinful? Thankfully that is not the intent of what Jesus is saying. Although Jesus is making it clear what Father God’s expectations are, this is to lead people to repent. If people do not know what they are doing wrong, how can they admit it and fix it? 

The only way to deal with sin is to cut it off. Jesus says if anything causes you to sin, “tear it out and throw it away”. You need to be harsh with sin, it needs to be completely destroyed, cut off, killed, no longer a part pf you. That means that maybe you need to cut off seeing certain people, going to particular places, cut out watching particular content, or cut off unholy thoughts. You know what you need to do to stop sin, but will you? Although these are things we can do to prevent ourselves doing sinful actions again, it does not deal with the root cause or the sin already committed. Jesus had already thought of that too! He did not just tell us all how rotten we are and leave us there, he created a way for you to be sin-free. For Jesus put to death all sin. The spoken, unspoken, seen and unseen sin. Through giving up his perfect, holy life as an atonement for all of it Jesus killed off the sin that you do, and he took the punishment for it all. You do not actually have to tear your eyes out or rip off your limbs, you can so be righteous enough to meet the standard of God requires by accepting that Jesus was perfect and he died in order to cut off sin and throw it away in your life. All you need to do is confess what you have done, decide that you do not want to do it anymore, and accept that Jesus gave his sinless life to forgive you. He did what you couldn’t. Jesus lived the perfect sinless life in thought, desire and action, and he was killed for the sins of the world in order to tear out the power of sin in your life. He did it so that you could be free and learn to live a life of holiness. You can stand before Almighty God as pure and righteous when you accept Jesus.

Are you righteous?

Once Jesus has clarified the role of the disciples - to be salt and light to the world, he then explains what that involves. He covers certain elements that are necessary to demonstrate that those who follow him are indeed following him and honouring God. 

Matthew 5:17–26 (ESV): 

“Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. 18 For truly, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the Law until all is accomplished. 19 Therefore whoever relaxes one of the least of these commandments and teaches others to do the same will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever does them and teaches them will be called great in the kingdom of heaven. 20 For I tell you, unless your righteousness exceeds that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.”

Those who had been hearing Jesus up to this point may have been rejoicing because they had not heard teaching like this before, so they thought that he was usurping the Law. Therefore Jesus makes it clear to his listeners that this is not the case, he is in fact fulfilling the Law and Prophets. Jesus is embodying and bringing to life the very words of God - the Scriptures the Israelite people were trying to learn and follow. As the Son of God, Jesus was there when the Law and Prophets were written so he knows the intent and purpose of the Law and he taught what they really mean and demonstrated this through the life he lived. Jesus followed both the Law of God, and the law of the land, he paid taxes, took part in Jewish celebrations, and went to synagogue. His teaching rather than radically dismissing the Scriptures, radically explained them. Over the centuries that had passed since the Torah had been written the true understanding of what they meant had weakened, rituals and ceremonies had become commonplace to try to put into action what people thought The Law meant. So Jesus clarified and upheld the intended meaning and purpose of the Law which was to showcase a pure and holy God, and to bring His people to Himself. 

Jesus obeyed The Law, he embodied it. He encourages his hearers to be law abiders, not breakers, too. Yet Jesus does not stop there - he also tells those listening that they have to be more righteous than the Scribes and Pharisees! These were the religious men who; study, debate, and teach Scripture all day and who do their best to obey and enforce every ritual. Jesus is saying that those who honour God have to be more righteous than them! This would have been shocking for those that heard Jesus say this, it is a high bar to attain as these religious men were the holiest people the Jews knew! 

However, Jesus was saying that even these religious men were not righteous enough and they won’t get into heaven. So what hope is there for the rest of humanity?

The Pharisees and Scribes were well educated and revered men, experts at recounting the Law and Prophets, following rituals and teaching others to do the some. They were not very good at understanding that true righteousness is displayed in the relationships that they have both with God and other people. Jesus was explaining to those around him that righteousness is not about knowledge, rituals, rules, or giving sacrifices. This was incredibly radical news, for this is what the Israelites had heard and lived for generations. They knew as Israelites that they were a set apart by God as favoured people. This meant that God had caused them to live differently to surrounding nations, in order to be kept pure and made right with God through different rules and practices. They had certain celebrations and sacrifices to make to honour God and be made right with Him. The Pharisees oversaw and taught these things. They were the ones trying to teach the people The Law and how to follow it, as Jesus is saying, so how can anyone ese match the level of righteousness required to enter the kingdom of heaven? That is the point. No human on Earth could attain pure righteousness. Except one, and that is Jesus. He was the only one capable of living the perfect life of being more righteous than every religious leader because he is the Son of God.

Even though Jesus was tempted and suffered just like the rest of us do, he never sinned. His righteousness truly outstripped that of the Scribes and Pharisees. He lived and understood The Law in a different way than they did, for Jesus knew the Law writer personally. He was with God, his Father as it was written and given. So Jesus could understand, demonstrate and explain righteousness in a way no-one else could. Jesus made it clear that even ordinary people can be made righteous, you do not have to know it all, have it all or follow all the routines and rituals, but still you can be made right with God. Jesus did not just create the problem of righteousness seeming unattainable, but he gave his life so that righteousness can be accessed to anyone and everyone. Jesus was the perfect fulfilment of The Law. He followed and obeyed it perfectly. This was so that he could generously give up his life to make atonement for your sin. Now you too can be made righteous, more righteous than the most righteous people you know! If you trust and believe that Jesus is the Son of God who died for all sin, giving you a new life of purity, and you follow him, you can be made righteous. For when you turn and believe in Jesus, God no longer sees you and your wrongdoings, but he sees His perfect son, Jesus. You get to receive his righteousness. You don't deserve it, you haven't earned it and you haven't kept the rules, but you can be righteous and keep being righteous all because of Jesus! 

Following Jesus is the only way that you can be made right with God and become righteous than the Scribes and Pharisees. There is no other way. You cannot try hard enough, follow enough rules, know enough, or be kind and generous enough to earn your way into heaven. It is only through accepting that you can be made righteous through the love, life, death and resurrection of Jesus that you are made right before God. So, do you desire to be right before God? If so, trust in Jesus. He made the impossible possible for those who believe in him. When you accept him and his forgiveness and learn to follow him, then you become more righteous than the Scribes and Pharisees and able to enter the kingdom of heaven!

Stand out and be distinctive

After the Beatitudes, these words of Jesus are recorded. I wonder if they are said as an encouragement to bolster faith and enthusiasm to keep going in doing the hard things Jesus has been teaching. To show the purpose of developing the kind of character that Jesus has been encouraging the disciples to develop. 

Matthew 5:13–16 (ESV): 

You are the salt of the earth, but if salt has lost its taste, how shall its saltiness be restored? It is no longer good for anything except to be thrown out and trampled under people’s feet. 

14 “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven. 

Disciples of Jesus are meant to stand out, not be hidden. The verses just before this are Jesus explaining the benefits of being; hungry for faith, mourning, being meek, humble, kind, merciful, forgiving, not giving payback, being honest and having integrity. These are the character traits that God rewards, they take time and effort to develop and they also cause people to stand out. How many people do you know who are meek or merciful, or any of the other characteristics? Probably not many, but i would expect that those you do know are people that you admire and respect because of these attributes. Those who believe in and follow Jesus should display these characteristics as they are salt and light to the world - they are born to stand out and be distinctive.

Jesus says, “You are the salt of the earth….You are the light of the world”. It is not an option. This is what disciples of Jesus are. This is your identity when you trust and believe in Jesus, you become salt and light. So what does Jesus mean when he says this?

"You are the salt of the earth" - Salt preserves and gives taste, improving the eating experience and keeping things fresh and usable. It can also be used to promote healing. Salt has good properties that are used and appreciated by everyone. It is commonly used, and nowadays is used in many products from food items to cleaning and gardening products. Salt is effective. As people of God you are called to be effective too. Not by doing lots of incredible, mighty deeds, but by standing out as different where you are and in what you are doing. You can tell when salt is present. People should be able to detect that there is something different about you and that you are present because of the goodness and freshness you bring due to your character developed in faith. Also, you are to remain salty. It is not enough to have a go at being meek or honest, but you are to keep on being so, the same for being forgiving and kind and being passionate for God. Do not let the concerns and distractions around you prevent you from being who God created you to be and displaying righteousness. The world needs salt, so keep being salty. This is what Jesus has said you are. Keep demonstrating godliness, meekness, integrity, forgiveness and mercy even when people do not like or want it. Salt in a wound stings, but it also heals, so trust that God will heal the hurting through the character being developed in you. Do not try to tone down who you are in God, you can't tone down salt - you either have salt or you don’t, and if you lose your flavour Jesus says you become good for nothing, fit to be “thrown out and trampled under people’s feet”. You don't want that, so keep being salty! Sometimes fear and despondency cause people to lose their distinctiveness. So make sure you remind yourself of the goodness of God and avoid the fear of man’s disapproval. Later on in the book of Matthew Jesus is recorded as saying, “do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell.” (Matthew 10:28). Do not be put off by hardship or persecution, not everyone likes salt. If something is too salty for them, they spit it out. Let them do that without it upsetting or offending you. For they are rejecting Christ in you, but they cannot take away your love and reverence for Him unless you let them. People have not got power to defeat you, but God has the the power to determine your eternal future. So live a life of saltiness.

As a follower of Jesus, you are also the light of the world. You can illuminate the world - what a great privilege and responsibility! Do not dull the personality that God has formed in you, dumb down your faith, or fail to shine in dark situations. Instead allow the Holy Spirit show you how to bring your light in every situation. By displaying the character Jesus has outlined, you can show people what the Kingdom of God is like. You shed light onto the fact that God is real, living and active today. People see that you are different, they see goodness and beauty in who you are and what you are doing because you are the light of the world. This also means that even in the darkest times and places you can see - you have hope. You know in difficult situations that there is an eternal future, so you can keep shining and keep trusting.  Sometimes it may be that you can keep smiling at times when others aren't, that you trust a situation is going to work out or that you are not panicking when bad things happen. Do not be afraid to be that light, and do not hide it. Continue to be the light of the world, how will people know there is a God otherwise?  A light does not choose when it comes on. Once the switch is pressed, it shines. Your light is turned on when you turn and believe in Jesus and choose to follow him.You cannot turn the light within you off, do not try to dim it or cover it up either. Remember that when you are around people ‘see your good works and give glory glory to your Father in heaven’. As you continue in good, godly character, and persist in situations others cannot stand, you are displaying something of God. So, make sure you are pointing out that it is your Father in heaven that equips and inspires you to be the light.

You are salt - you are different and you stand out. Plus you are light - you can see and illuminate the darkness. Do not hide who you are. Thank God that he has made you to be salt and light to the world. By being so, you are showing the world that there is a God who loves and cares for them and can give them a life that is different too - a life of distinctiveness.